My Mission Statement

Thank you for your interest in my Website and the services I offer.

My Website:  If you have not already done so I would suggest that you take the time to read through my Website properly, since I am confident that it will answer most of your questions.  It outlines where I am located, includes details of the services I offer and specifies what I expect by way of a tribute for my time should you want a one-to-one session with me.  It also includes photographs and movie clips of me in action and explains how you can get involved with making a movie with me.

My Services:  I do offer a very wide range of domination and BDSM services and whereas I have a personal preference for the more severe and harsh scenarios, I am very happy to entertain complete novices, and I will consider any request that is not immoral, or illegal.  Whether you want just mild 'Tie&Tease', or a more specialist service (such as ball-busting, harsh CBT [cock and ball torture], trampling, nipple torture, corporal punishment, a severe caning, a bullwhipping, breath control, TV dressing, watersports, strapon-play, or whatever), you should not be afraid to ask.  Trust me I've heard it all.  However, you should understand that whereas I am happy to apply my craft unto you, I will not be done by you.

My Way:  If you want a mind blowing experience with a true 'Domina', rather than with an 'escort' dressed in a bit of leather, or PVC you have made the right first move.  'I believe that true domination comes from domination of the mind and the senses and that pain and reward is just one part of the complex process of breaking down your will to resist'.  This is the ultimate 'game' and Mistress always wins!  I am fortunate enough to have the physical attributes to entice you, the confidence of character to control you and the imagination and experience to take you where even you probably don't even know that you can go.  If you visit me and fail to return I can conclude only that either you are not into this scene, or that somehow I failed to connect with you.  Most people I see come back for more ... and more and more. This is the ultimate addiction!

Communication With Me - 
By telephone:  You are very welcome to phone me to discuss a session with me, or to discuss anything else mentioned on my Website, but you should respect the fact that I am not a telephonist and that therefore I cannot always chat for very long.  My advice to you if you are tempted, or curious is to come and see me and you can then chat all you want.  Some Mistresses hide behind a maid who they get to answer their phones for them, but I find that disrespectful and I always answer my own phone. You must appreciate, however, that I cannot answer my phone when I am busy and you should therefore keep trying if you get my answer machine as I'm never usually very far away. If you are  determined to speak with me I can promise you that you will catch up with me if you keep trying.
By e-mail I will reply personally to all e-mails that I receive, but once again please respect the fact that I would rather be sitting on your face in my dungeon than sitting on my butt in front of a computer screen.

Sessions With Me:  First and foremost I am a lifestyle Mistress with a preference for hardcore domination and BDSM.  I never rush, because why should I.  It takes time to get from you what I want and rushing through life is not what I am about.  At heart I am a true sadist and I get great pleasure from inflicting pain and in watching the reaction I get back from those on whom I inflict that pain.  I make no excuses for how much I enjoy what I do and I neither question the morality of it, nor lose sleep at night wondering if I am a good, or bad person because I enjoy something different.  If you come and see me you can expect something very different.  If you are a novice to this you will be encouraged and amazed by what you experience with me and if you are already experienced you will be relieved that at last you have found what you are looking for.

Hygiene and Cleanliness:  I am often complimented on how spotlessly clean and hygienic my dungeon is and how well maintained and sanitised all my equipment is.  Hygiene is something I take extremely seriously, as is your safety and well being whilst you are with me.  Nothing is left to chance and it is important to me that you leave me feeling refreshed, rejuvenated and 'cleansed' in both mind and body.  There is both a toilet and a shower in the dungeon. You can use the shower before &/or after our session if you want. I will be washed and wearing expensive perfume for our session, so Mistress expects you to be clean and smelling of something nice also. No smelly bodies, as Mistress hates them.

Privacy and Discretion:  All interaction between us will be treated with the strictest confidence.  My dungeon is a place where we can both escape the real world and chase a world of fantasy.  Mutual respect is a condition, not an option and whilst you are with me time will stand still and life's pressures and tribulations will take a back seat.  Proper BDSM is a meeting of minds and what goes on whilst you are with me will remain just with the two of us.

I hope that we either get to meet in person, or that you find here something else that you are looking for. 

Remember, 'Nothing Ventured, Nothing Gained'.  It would be a shame to always wonder, 'What If?'

Mistress Dometria