Tie & Tease / Tie & Deny:

Q: What is Tie & Tease / Tie & Deny?
A: Tie & Tease, also known as Tie & Deny, does entail some forms of bondage and/or restraint, but the entire philosophy and premise of this form of ‘tying’ differs entirely. With general bondage and/or restraint, the form/s of tying are specifically relevant to the session itself and/or any other elements pertaining to that session, e.g. to experience the sensation of being bound (akin to a feeling of being embraced or ‘protected’, to being ‘held’ in arms which possess a supernatural strength enough to keep you there, to keep you safely and comfortingly, as though back in the womb), or in a scenario whereby you must be held still and/or in one place for your own safety, i.e. when indulging in knife play, for example, or for extra effect when in an interrogation session. Whilst these elements are still important with Tie & Tease / Tie & Deny, the concept if this particular form is far more simple, inasmuch as the bondage and/or restraint is in place solely so that Mistress can exercise another method of control over you, one which may not appear as ‘extreme’ initially, but one which can be far more frustratingly (for you) ‘cruel’ and enjoyable (for Mistress). Specifically, with Tie & Tease / Tie & Deny, the restraints are in place so that Mistress can torment and tease you with My beauty and desirability, as I flaunt and parade Myself around you in a fashion which will drive you insane with desire for Me, made all the more frustrating because, although you already know you can not touch Mistress, the restraints and/or bondage remind you of this, both physically and mentally, thus reiterating that Mistress is always in complete control of all the aspects of your being, including your most basic, animalistic, carnal compulsions, especially as this form of play also prevents you from touching yourself during the session.

Q: How can Tie & Tease / Tie & Deny be used during a session?
A: It is especially important that bondage and/or restraint techniques are used with Tease/Deny play, as Mistress knows all too well the power She holds over mankind, inasmuch as Mistress, whilst not suffering from delusions of grandeur because I understand My own psyche and know precisely where My powers lie, must ensure that you are safely and securely bound in order to prevent any little mishaps, like your becoming so infatuated and crazed with lust that you attempt to lurch at Mistress and paw at Mistress, blaming your lack of respect on the fact that you were simply unable to control yourself any longer. Now, whilst we all know that this kind of behaviour is totally unacceptable at any time in My dungeon, and that even attempting a silly move would result in your being stopped in your tracks with, for example, a blow to the head which would fell you in an instant, no matter how big or strong you may be, or think yourself to be, with Tease/Deny play it is especially important that you know, and are kept in, your place. During this kind of session, Mistress will exercise all My talents of seduction in order to tempt and torment you, and Mistress wants and intends to drive you mad with lust and desire, for this emotive state, on your part, is the entire reason for entering into a session of Tie & Tease / Tie & Deny, i.e. to experience a different side of Mistress, to witness Mistress as the ultimate woman, the ultimate ‘sex object’ (although I use this term lightly, for I would never classify Myself as an ‘object’, other than the ‘object’ or your affection and love!), and the ultimate unobtainable creature of your wildest, most wanton, dreams. I reiterate, for Mistress to show you this side of Her nature, you must be restrained … for your own safety, because Mistress simply hates having to deal with spilt brains of Her nice clean dungeon floor, and no matter how good and obedient a slave you may be, you are still a man, and no man can control his desires for this face of Mistress.