There is too hot, too cold, too big, too small, but there is never too hardcore. Each to his own of course and we all have our preferences, and our taboos. If you have read through my website and checked out the numerous movie clips and photos and if you are maybe one of those thinking ... 'fuck this is one hardcore bitch ... too harsh and hardcore for me ... she would probably have me for breakfast and then throw my limp carcass out on the street'. Of course you are probably correct ... I am hardcore, because that is where my head is and that's what I enjoy.

However, don't despair. This Mistress loves everything to do with BDSM and it's not just the look of fear in someone's eyes as I circle them ready to lay on the next stroke of my whip, or their pitiful pleas for mercy and restraint that I feed on. Mistress seriously gets off on the empowerment I feel in my being able to control and to maybe humiliate. I enjoy that wanting look in a slave's eyes as he lies prostate at my feet begging me to allow him to worship my body and my feet, to run his hands up my slender calves and over my strong and toned thighs. Slave wants to feel me, to kiss me, to smell the heady mixed scent of sexed up Mistress, expensive perfume and warm leather. Slave wants to worship me and to submit to the longing he feels deep inside him. At that moment time stands still and the heady wisps of incense and background music combine to have slave begging and pleading with me to have him do anything I want. 'Mistress I'll do anything for you ... anything!' This is empowerment and what Mistress (female) wouldn't get off on that. There is loads we can do that doesn't involve pain, submissiveness, misery, welts, marks, screaming, or crying. Of course you will have to play by my rules, or not play with me at all. Here are some ideas and some rules:

Body Worship & Foot/Shoe Worship
This is a big one and something that many Pro-Dommes are confused and negative about, but I personally think that's a cop-out and you wanting to worship me is I believe an important part of what I do. I am lucky enough to have the body and looks that make most men want me, I spend long hours in the gym working out, so why shouldn't I capitalise on it and incorporate it into my sessions. That said I am not about to allow someone to grab my tits, or my crutch, or slobber over my bare feet like some demented animal. Do that and you will probably get a smack in the mouth and/or a hard kick in the balls, and then you will be thrown out of my dungeon into the street. You can worship me whilst I'm dressed in PVC, or maybe whilst I'm clad in latex, or leather. There will be no fondling and groping my bare skin, but you can stroke, fondle and kiss my stiletto heeled feet, rub your hands up and down my black thigh-length stiletto heeled boots, fondle my leather, or PVC clad ass, all the while masturbating your cock if you like. I love all that, but do it calmly, respectfully and erotically, or you don't get to do it at all.

Forced Milking
You will be strapped to the St Andrews Cross, your feet and hands tied and you ain't going nowhere. Or maybe you will be strapped on your back to Mistress's medical bench. Mistress might be wearing very little; maybe Mistress will be wearing a quarter-cup bra with her erect nipples standing proud, or maybe a nurse's uniform, or simply what she steps out in during the day. You, however, might be naked, or maybe Mistress will just pull your cock out through your pants and milk you like that, but either way you will be vulnerable and your cock will be impatient for the first touch of Mistress's hand. Bright lights, no music and Mistress verbally abusing and taunting you as she vigorously masturbates you until you spunk, then Mistress will start all over again. No release and no escape until you are wrung out and drained. Or maybe low lights and sensual background music and slow unrelenting masturbation until you spunk, and then Mistress will start on you all over again. We can decide the setting and mood together, but there will be no escape, or let up until Mistress decides you are spent and you will then be sent on your way. Mistress insists only that if you want to play this game that she has a cock worthy of her intentions to work on. No soft, floppy cocks as Mistress hates them. Mistress has plenty of tools to help, cock-pumps, cock-restraints, cock-bands and lubrication, but they are all useless if your cock ain't up to the job in the first place.

Face-Sitting
What Mistress (and female) wouldn't get off on parking her leather, or PVC clad ass on some poor slave's face and listening to him gagging and fighting for breath. You will be strapped down and totally helpless, so Mistress can control your breathing with her ass. Mistress will park her leather, or PVC clad ass right over you nose and mouth and watch you inhale Mistress's unique scent, and then enjoy it as your hands start to tremble and as you start to struggle as you become short of air. A quick breath of air, then more of the same. Baiting you, teasing you and playing with you. Mistress particularly enjoys face-sitting in her interrogation cells, with slave strapped into a leather straight-jacket. The cells are cold, damp and exposed brick. Damp leather has a smell unique to itself. Very empowering for me and totally mind blowing for you.

Watersports (The big 'Golden Shower')
Why wouldn't I enjoy taking you by the scruff of your neck into my wetroom, forcing you down on your back on the cold floor, propping your head up on the step by the toilet, standing above you so you are looking straight up between my legs, and then me releasing my golden nectar over you upturned face? I will aim it in your face, in your eyes, in your mouth and all over your head, and believe you me when Mistress says that she can release gallons of golden nectar. Mistress can out golden nectar them all. You will choke and gag as it pours out of me in torrents. If you want to impress me, drink it. This is probably one of the few ways that you will get to see Mistress's cunt, so you had better be up for it. If all you want is Golden Showers don't expect your session to last more than thirty minutes.

Go on and use your imagination, and don't be afraid to ask. He who never asks never gets. Just remember, however, what this is all about and don't ask silly, stupid, or disrespectful questions, since all that will get you is a call discontinued tone.

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